Are you looking for sugar daddy real stories? Let me share mine with you. I won’t describe all my relationships in detail, but I’ll focus on the most important points—how I decided to become a sugar daddy, what the number of sugar babies I’ve dated is, what amounts of money I paid, and how I met the most attractive ladies. Spoiler alert—it wasn’t cheap, but it was worth it.
How did I become a sugar daddy
A lot of sugar daddy personal stories start the same way—men are tired of good old vanilla relationships with all that jealousy, incredibly high expectations, and control 24/7, and to be honest, I wasn’t an exception. At 24, I got married, and as you’ve probably guessed, my marriage turned out to be a disaster, and I had a lot more or less long-term serious relationships with women after I divorced. Some of them were great and some were horrible, but there is one thing that all of them had in common: these were problems. Along with that, in most relationships, I was a benefactor in varying degrees. No, I didn’t pay a monthly allowance to all my girlfriends, but you know how much gifts like iPhones and dinners at restaurants cost. The richer I got, the more I spent.
After one breakup, I started analyzing what really happened this time. I asked myself if I really enjoyed my relationship with my last girlfriend. Well, the honest answer was “I would if I had fewer responsibilities, fewer problems, and wouldn’t feel like someone wants to get full control over my life”. Then I asked myself how much I’ve spent during the last two months of my relationship. Yes, you guessed it right—I could have a mutually beneficial relationship, no problems, and spend even a bit less. That’s what sugar daddy experience stories usually begin with.
How many sugar babies I’ve had
I’ve had 8 sugar babies. However, I had long-term relationships only with 3 of them. Let me explain how it worked.
On a sugar website, you meet a girl, discuss what you both expect (my demands were pretty simple, no jealousy, no control, no all those problems, just fun), including the payment. On first dates, you usually pay per meet.
With 5 sugar babies, we had 4-10 dates in total. These weren’t long-term relationships. We had conversations, dinners, sex, but soon I realized that I’d like to try something new, and that’s absolutely normal in the world of sugar dating. On top of that, most sugar daddy relationship stories are like mine. However, many sugar daddy success stories about great long-term relationships, and I had them two. With one of my sugar babies, we’ve been dating for 8 months, and I’d continue this relationship if she wouldn’t have to move to another state, and yes, we still keep in touch.
Basically, this is how it works—you start dating a girl and keep dating her as long as it’s fun. If you meet a really special girl, you start a long-term relationship, and in most cases, pay her a monthly allowance.
Where I found sugar babies: Top 5 websites by Joe
How did I find my first SBs? Here are the good platforms I’ve tried.
- Seeking Arrangement—the most popular platform with the largest number of sugar babies in any area.
- Ashley Madison—the site where girls are looking for a sugar daddy and don’t mind dating a married or attached guy.
- Secret Benefits—easy to use website with great features, perfect for beginners.
- SugarDaddy.com—the platform with ladies, most of whom have verified and pretty detailed profiles.
- SugarDaddyMeet—the site with great moderation and members only from the 20 wealthiest countries in the world.
I recommend all these sites—most sugar daddy dating stories start there. Need more info about how to find a sugar baby? You can get it right in this short guide.
How much did I pay the sugar babies?
As I’ve noted previously, in some cases, I paid for a date, and in some cases, I paid an allowance. So, the PPM rate was $250-$400 depending on the girl (some asked for more, some were dumping, some were hotter, some were stunningly intelligent, and that affected the price, too). As for monthly allowances, the sugar baby I’ve been dating for 8 months asked for $3,500 + dinners and gifts (I didn’t have to buy gifts, but I really liked her, so why not). My other two long-term sugar girlfriends asked for $3,000 per month. Note that you can pay more or less—again, it depends on a sugar baby and your expectations about her looks, level of education (if it’s important for you), the exclusivity of your relationship, etc.
There are a lot of sugar daddy stories, and this was the short version of mine. Hope it was helpful. If you are tired of vanilla dating and can afford a sugar baby, why not give it a try?